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Everyone has a dream, but very few are willing to truly chase a dream. I have seen that willingness, that zeal and that perseverance in Heer. Her choices over the years have been out of the box for a child her age. At times I did want to caution her for the fear of her not being able to achieve what she wanted. But I have tried to be supportive as I've always been amazed at her ambition to get better and her onus to complete.

Over the years she has shown interest in performing arts and music. I have let her pursue what she wanted by discussing the pros and cons, the future and more. She has always been extremely keen in learning and performing ballet and a musical instrument over the years. Last year, she has taken great strides in her ballet class and has gone on to perform with her ballet group too.

However, music education on the whole had taken a back seat for a while and we wanted her to pursue this interest as music plays a very important part in a child’s development. Research even shows that children exposed to music training from an early childhood develop an interest in exploring, they speak more clearly, have a larger vocabulary and have strong social-emotional skills. The psychologist Howard Gardner also pegged music intelligence above logical and emotional intelligence as it has the ability to strengthen the bond between the mind and the body.

We finally decided to trade her tiny little pink toy keyboard for a portable Roland E-X30 Arranger Keyboard. Investing in a piano is a huge decision and after scrutiny, we picked the Roland E-X30 Arranger Keyboard for its high-quality sounds that are ideal for music lessons. This keyboard seems to be a beautiful blend between western and Indian music as it has wide range of both Indian and western sounds and rhythms. Roland is also planning to provide local music styles for Roland E-X30 in future.


A keyboard - contrary to what people believe - is a relatively easy, interesting and social instrument to include in a child’s learning. It helps build a child’s musical expression and creativity, develop technique and rhythm while letting children play and create full-band performances. Roland E-X30 with features like a portability, onboard speakers and battery operation is convenient to carry anywhere.

I’ve seen my little girl blossom as the keyboard has sparked her passion and curiosity for music. She keeps setting her musical goals and revisits them from time to time. I think as a mother while I encourage her to chase her dream and soar high into the sky, my instinct also ensures that I keep her grounded and raise her as an individual true to herself. And as she gets older and begins to fine-tune her dreams, I shall help her keep an honest eye on reality which shall become her greatest assets in understanding who she is, what is she doing, where she is going, and how she will get there.

Let me know in the comments below how do you as a parent help in your child’s dream? 

Until next time,
~ Heena
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My gorgeous little one was to turn FIVE on the 18th of November and I was looking forward to celebrating the day with her all dressed up in a beautiful gown, true princess style. I expected her to want a Barbie themed party or even Sofia the First; however to my surprise she looked at me while watching Disney and chose PJ Masks. I thought the sweet little babe of mine would forget all about it the next day; but she got talking about the décor, costume and much more. 


She seemed obsessed with PJ Masks, especially Owlette a red-eyed girl who transforms into an Owl wearing a red costume with cape-like wings and moves around in an Owl Glider. I smiled and got working. What I didn’t realise was that PJ Masks stuff is hard to come by, they have no decorations or toys, not even at the Disney Store or any other place in a city like Mumbai. So huge preparations began amidst the chaos for my little Owlette! As it’s a new show, I hardly know anything about it, but #PrincessHeer filled me in completely. We got creative, worked with what we had available and called on a few favours from friends. 


We found a local costume shop willing to make a costume in 3 days, and then I called upon a friend based in the US to send us the figurines for the cake and the Owlette mask. A dear friend Ruchika who is a home baker at ChocoRika, agreed to make the cake as per the birthday girl’s suggestions n requests. No soon this was confirmed, we sent out the invites. For the décor we stuck with the blue, green and red theme to represent Catboy, Owlette and Gecko with balloons, character cut-outs and streamers. We printed and cut-out a ton of wristbands and punch gloves for all the kids to wear. The food was managed by the restobar Brass Monkey and they did a fine job of it; while the pictures were taken by Rutik Shah. 


I insisted that she change into a dress for the cake-cutting and she readily agreed. All in all the party turned out to be great, mind you the post is image heavy. 




What do you think? Did we do well?

- Heena
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Stepping Into Motherhood To Create A Lifetime Of Memories

Motherhood is a rainbow where each color is unique and symbolizes something special, however when they come together they form a spectrum of misty light that is awesomeness. This motherhood rainbow is created with varied emotional variations, upheavals and unexpectedness.

And I welcomed my rainbow from the horizon into my sky on a chaotic day that was filled with excitement, fear, pain, anxiety and a lot of love. It was November 18th, 2011 at around 3.30 am when my water broke and my husband and mother-in-law rushed me to the hospital. The head nurse did the preliminary checks and suggested some exercises.

In some time I was made comfortable in my room; pillow arranged around making me as comfortable as they could. The doctor arrived and I was taken to the sonography room for further observation. He seemed happy with the progress I was making and said we will have a beautiful child in our hands in a couple of hours.

As my mother arrived and I realized it was well over 6 hours with me being in over 4 hours of labor. Having read about labor pains and the uneasiness, I was surprised I hardly felt anything except butterflies in my stomach. A few hours passed and after a couple of re-examinations the doctor seemed a tad bit worried. He told my hubby that the baby had moved into the breech position and all was well for a normal delivery however a lot of fluid was already lost. He suggested that either we could opt for a C-section or wait for a couple of hours to check the contractions for a normal delivery. The only fear was that if I were to lose more fluid, then it could affect the well-being of our baby.

Without wasting anytime I was wheeled inside the OR at 1.30 pm and I heard the best sound of my life - tiny sobs in less than 15 minutes. Fully conscious of what was happening I asked "How is my princess?" The doctor smiled and replied, "Healthy and gorgeous, just like her momma". I relaxed.

When I woke up, I saw some of the best people in my life all gushing over a little miracle. As my husband realised I had woken up he picked my little doll and brought her to me. 

November 18th, 2011 at 4.00 pm was the first time I held my life in my hands. The first thing I noticed was that she was a true replica of her daddy; to our amazement both of us had broad smiles contrasting the tears in our eyes. 

The day was a roller-coaster that took me from a wife to a momma. For the first time I realized qualities I never thought I possessed… strength, tenderness, weakness, worship and above all UNCONDITIONAL LOVE!

The day that will remain etched in my memory till the last breathe I take, the day I received the best blessing I could, the blessing of motherhood. Thank you princess for being my miracle, for choosing me as your mother! 

I Love You My Princess,
~ Momma
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Ever  since I was a little girl, the most powerful presence I felt in my life has been that of my dad. My mother narrates numerous stories about him that has left me in awe of him. Of the zillion memories that I share with him; one stands out clear and tall… 

Not Just A Father, He Is A Great Dad!

 It was an exciting moment in my life, the farewell party celebrated in school just before the Grade 10 board exams. It was a wonderful period in my schooling life…. having a blast with friends with compulsory lunches, extra classes and study sleepovers.

Luckily mom understood what it meant to me… and was completely supportive. We went berserk shopping for clothes, shoes, purses. On the afternoon of the party, just before I was to get ready my dad gave me a gift and said I had to use it for the party. I un-wrapped the gift praying it should not be a dress or a pair of sandals as I had already decided what I wanted to wear. Opening it, I saw a beautiful make-up kit and screamed with pleasure.

My mother helped me get ready for the party and when I was to leave with my friends; my dad came to my room. He said, 'I need to hire a few royal guards for you…my gorgeous little princess….You look so angelic that the angels will want to hide.'

Such beautiful words made the occasion more special than ever. 

Not Just A Father, He Is A Great Dad!

And then after almost 10 years he complimented me again with those same very special words, on my wedding day just as I entered for the Jaimala ceremony. My Dad, a #GreatDad. 

Of all the men I know, I see the same qualities reflect in another man, my husband. And since I am older enough to understand I realise that to change your life drastically for another human being takes great courage and patience. This comes only when a man becomes a DAD. 

Over the last three years, every day I see a brighter side of the man I never thought would change his lifestyle. Where I failed miserably, a little princess just looked at him and he was another man. The below versus sums up the changes beautifully….

Not Just A Father, He Is A Great Dad!

From the man who woke up to watch the news; 
To the man who rocks her to sleep with tiny dews.
From the man who played tennis on weekends;
To the man who plays doll games on the toy beds.

From the man who loved international food;
To the man who shares khichadi that’s so good.
From the man who clubbed and partied all night;
To the man who runs around gardens oh so bright.

From the man who wanted everything white;
To the man who adds rainbow colors to her life.
From the man who was just a Man;
To the Man who now is a #GreatDad.
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A Letter To My Daughter

A wonderful miracle happened to me, my princess born on 18 November 2011. She has brought out unexpected qualities that I never thought I possessed...... compassion, strength, tenderness, weakness, worship and above all UNCONDITIONAL LOVE".

Thank you for choosing me to be your momma.

Relive with me the day you arrived.

I Love You.
~ Momma
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Photoshoot With My Princess

After a lot of rescheduling and reaching a point of cancelling the whole idea, due to our respective hectic schedules, we finally made it on none other than Father's Day this year for a long overdue photo shoot with renowned photographer Mani Hora.

A beaming me debated what to wear... finally settling on a Zara bottom and a PDP shirt-top. Princess was dressed in her trademark Gini & Jony shorts and tee...and hubby was all set for the rains in a Tommy Hilfiger  jeans and Blackberry shirt.

Mani such a lovely guy....cool composed and totally into his love - photography.

We drove around Lokhandwala amidst pouring rain scouting for a good location. The area is gorgeous especially the back road which is usually very quiet and there are some really good spots... a low bridge, a garden, a long stretch of road overlooking a canal, and much more… We started off with a few test shots against a construction site when it started pouring cats and dogs. Loads of people too were out enjoying the romantic weather and that too posed a problem as we weren't getting clear pictures. We are hopeful but the rain continued to play spoilsport.  

After a while, we threw caution to the wind.... read rain and posed just about everywhere and anywhere.

We stopped and clicked a few pictures, then rushed back into the car. Even in the most chaotic situation, we had such an awesome time. Mani had his inputs and we had ours, we experimented with both.  

Such a crazy day filled with love, love and more love - just as the saying goes, 'HEAVEN ON EARTH'.

The pictures speak for themselves.

Photoshoot With My Princess
Photoshoot With My Princess

At one point a couple of people came over and requested us for autographs.

Want to feel like a star? Contact Mani for a lifestyle shoot on his Facebook Page HERE. Or visit his Photography page to see his work HERE.

Until soon, keep visiting,
~ Heena
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Life is like a rainbow where each colour is unique and symbolizes something special, however, when they come together they form a spectrum of misty light that demands awesomeness. Life becomes a rainbow when it is filled with varied emotional variations, upheavals and unexpectedness. 

Would there be any life if anyone emotion was missing in it? If sadness is missing we wouldn't appreciate happiness, if pain is missing we wouldn't appreciate pleasure. And to have a particular day repeat itself over and over again for the rest of my life, the day needs to be unbeatable. That day for me is the day - 

PRINCESS HEER WAS BORN
 A Letter To My Daughter

What a chaotic day that was, filled with excitement, love, pain, fear, anxiety and much more. I clearly remember the day..... November 17, 2011. Post dinner we went for a walk and I suddenly felt extremely tired. We retired for the night; I remember feeling anxious and uncomfortable-falling in and out of sleep. At around 3.30 my water broke and my husband and mother-in-law rushed me to the hospital. The head nurse did the preliminary checks and suggested some exercises.

In some time I was made comfortable in my room; pillow arranged and asked to rest for a while. The doctor arrived and I was taken to the sonography room for further observation. He seemed happy with the progress I was making and said we will have a beautiful child in our hands in a couple of hours.

My mother arrived and I realized it was well 9 am with over 4 hours already in labour. The doctor came again to check and to lighten the mood he asked... What do you want? I said, a perfectly healthy child. He smiled and asked the nurse to give me some liquid breakfast.

Having read about labour pains and the uneasiness, I was surprised I hardly felt anything except butterflies in my stomach. A few hours passed and after a reexamination, the doctor seemed a tad bit worried. He told my hubby that the baby had moved into the breech position and all was well for a normal delivery however, a lot of fluid was already lost. He suggested that either we could opt for a C-section or wait for a couple of hours to check the contractions for a normal delivery. The only fear was that if I were to lose more fluid, then it could affect the well-being of our baby.

Before anyone would say something, I said we should just do whatever is the best for the baby and go in for C-Section. My mom held my hand and I felt a lot more confident that things would be right. When my mom is here I have nothing to fear, I said. The doctor’s smile broadened and he told the nurse to get the OR ready.

I was wheeled inside at 1.30 pm and I heard the best sound of my life - tiny sobs. The Doctor came close to me and before he could say anything I asked, "How is my princess?" He said, "Healthy and gorgeous, just like her momma". With that, I relaxed.

When I woke up, I saw the best people in my life all gushing over a little miracle, my mom and dad, my mom and dad in law and my hubby. He picked the little doll and brought her to me and the first thing I noticed was that she is a true replica of her daddy. 

November 18th, 2011 at 4.00 pm was the first time I held my life in my hands. Everyone stepped out and gave us a few minutes alone with princess. To our amazement, both of us had tears in our eyes and broad smiles. 

As the news of the arrival of our princess spread, family and friends poured in every minute. The room was filled with gifts, cards, clothes and so many blessings.

The day was a roller-coaster… from tiredness to anxiety, to relaxation, to fear, to pain and finally immense happiness. For the first time, I realized qualities I never thought I possessed…. compassion, strength, tenderness, weakness, worship and above all UNCONDITIONAL LOVE!

I Love You, My Princess,
~ Momma
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